Saturday, December 24, 2011

How Do i became less Gay and more boyish ?

i mean i love horror movies and transformers and guns and swords and video games but i also like music like lady gaga the black eye peas and britney spears katy perry Rhianna my favorite colors wear are blue black purpler pink and i like skin tight jeans and skinny jeans and justin bieber i like and big time rush icarly so can some give me tips i have 2 boys skinny jeans but have not wear them much im think start with that so can please help me here picture of me ?





http://www.flickr.com/photos/61676762@N06/5760069041/sizes/l/in/photostream/|||Being gay refers to your sexual orientation. It has nothing to do with your taste in fashion, music, or other hobbies.





Your masculinity or femininity has nothing to do with being male or female, nor with your sexual orientation.





You have two options: Be yourself or live a lie and be unhappy.|||Your that way and you wont be able to change it,I don't under stand how liking lady gaga,the black eye peas,britney spears, katy perry,and Rhianna, makes you gay.I am more masculine than you would think of when you think of gays,but Im still gay and there's no changing that.I like purple and pink,who decided these are more fem than masc(but i wont wear it,dislike clothes these colors).Ok about skinny jeans i do agree are pretty gay i dislike seeing them period,but changing your likes and dislikes doesn't change who you are so just be YOU.





Also i bet your like 12 as you age these will change its part of growing up.|||1. I f*cking loathe this kind of questions. So, SO much.



2. Who says you can't be gay AND boyish? Sexual orientation and gender identity are two completely different things.



3. Screw trying to become someone, or something, you just aren't. Be yourself, because everybody else is taken, and trying to emulate everybody else just so that you can fit in is pretty f*cking pathetic.



4. If you're not attracted to other men, liking Katy Perry, pink, skinny jeans and Rihanna is NOT somehow miraculously going to make you crave penis. Grow a spine and stop fretting over this. And I blatantly refuse to look at your photograph, just on principle, due to the sheer idiocy of this question.|||I don't know why you'd want to be anyone or like anyone else but you.





T-shirts and loose cut jeans seem to be safe, but you will not be happy until you accept yourself, and you can't pretend to be someone else forever. When the time is right you will meet that special person who loves every inch of you just the way you are, that's the funny thing, if they don't it'd the universes way of saying that they are not the right one.





Don't hurry into relationships you only get hurt many people including myself are opting not to marry till later, some later than others because its so much more fun than having to spend all your money on a family, life is long enjoy!|||The only way to be less "gay" (Or less Takei, as they say in Tennessee) is to prefer girls more than other boys.





I know a couple of boyish gay men. It's not either/or.|||No comment.|||join a really manly sport.

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