I like this guy as a friend (but possibly more..) and we've been friends for quite some time. We're good friends, but we don't hang out often. We talk during school sometimes though. He's pretty cool, but he definitely LOVES to lead girls on and I'm not sure if he only wants one thing, or if he genuinely likes me. He never asks me if I'm okay, or how I'm feeling. All he does is makes perverted jokes to me, while to this other girl he's always asking how she feels and stuff.
He thinks he has me on a leash, and about a month ago I got sick of it. So whenever he would say something perverted I would jab him in the gut, kick him, punch him, slap him, push him or even scratch him down his face. (I'm aggressive.) But for some reason, he STILL keeps trying to get my attention because for some reason he wants me to fall for him again. He does this with every girl, and I KNOW that I deserve better but I just can't stay away from him. Like I said, we're good friends.
It's just this constant game we keep playing, and I'm not sure if I should keep playing it. I'm moving next year and I don't want all this drama. If he likes me, he should ask me out. (I'm NOT asking him out. He rejected about 10 girls this year and I don't want to give him the satisfaction of making him think I like him.) We have this love/hate relationship thing, I swear I feel like my life is an iCarly fanfiction. What should I do?
- OCD|||He's not worth it...
He likes your attention. But he doesn't like you.
Don't bother with him anymore. Don't give him that satisfaction of giving him what he wants. (KINKY! :P)|||yes|||hes definately playing head games with you, and i've been in a situation like that before. try to keep urself from falling from him, because it could only hurt you in the end. boys who act immature like that and dont care about ur feelings usually do not make good boyfriends. it sounds like he likes u too, but isn't exactly sure what he wants yet. He may be afraid to start a relationship and doesnt know how to ask you out. you need to stop this game ur playing, it seems like ur only going around in circles. although it may be hard to let go, u will feel much better when u put an end to this situation. dont cut him off as a friend though, just start to drop hints that ur not liking the way hes acting towards u. everything will work out eventually. :)|||The obvious answer will be to not be friends with him anymore.
I'm sure it's easier said than done.|||You are wasting ur time there is better out there...... and im sure there are a lot of other guys that like you and that are better|||Boys his age ONLY want ONE thing! You need to make good grades, plan for college and forget Mr.Cool, he just wants to play around. Anyway, you are too young to get all saddled down to any guy. Stop obsessing on this guy think of yourself first! When you get into college and plan a career and have your own really cool place you will be so glad you didn't get involved with Mr. cool and maybe get pregnant, and have a baby to care for. Think of it! you are free and young and don't need to be someones "pretend wife"...enjoy your life and freedom. You have years to get your heart broken and now is your time plan it well and you will NEVER regret it! someday you will find a real man that doesn't play games with you and offers you the stars and the moon, when you are a lot older.
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